How to Make the Guy Talk and Open Up

Often times guys are the one who won’t open up even though we usually say that women are more shy and timid. But when it comes to listening to women and opening up, guys don’t do it too often. Here are some ways to make your men response and hear to you:

There is a Right time and a wrong time. You don’t want to talk bad to him as soon as he comes back from a stressful work environment. Instead pick a suitable time when he is much relaxed and more likely to hear you. Guys need their downtime, just like girls do. It’s long been known that women are more emotionally fluent than guys - more verbal, with more people, on more topics. Guys tend to withdraw, in part because the areas of their brains that process speech and emotion are less fully developed.

Ask for respect and help in a good manner. It’s pretty stereotypical in our society to mark husband as a lazy person. But it could be because women don’t seek men’s help in a respectful manner. Women and men tend to talk about personal problems with different goals in mind.

You guys are team. You two have been together so you should try to understand each other better if you haven’t already. It’s ok to start now; better be late than never. Team work is the best.